What Time Does Your Shift Start

If homekeeping is an occupation, do we have a time of day when we start work? Do we get ready and dressed in a specific uniform or professional outfit, like a dress and apron? Do we look pretty for our job? Pretty and Presentable?

I was reading a "Good Old Days" book, set during the great depression.  GIs were coming home from the war and heading to college. Many of them were married and needed housing for their small families. One man found an old house near a school. He rented a room from the owner. He described the house as run down and dirty. The Landlady had been a wealthy woman, but all her servants had left to find work elsewhere. This woman told her tenants that she had never done menial labor in her life, and wasn't about to start now! (smiles)

Is housework menial labor? Or is it honest work?

I recently watched a movie where there was a wealthy family. They had a full-time maid. Well, the maid came into some money. She was encouraged to quit her job. The maid wondered why? She loved what she did and was proud of her work. She was skilled and did an excellent job. Why would she quit? I was so inspired by her attitude!

Homemakers should be proud of their work too. Not only are we cleaning and cooking, but we are caring for our own possessions - our homes! This should help us to get into a good daily routine. We should take our jobs seriously and do our very best.

If you started work at 8 a.m., would you be dressed and ready? I know we homemakers are available to work 24 hours a day - just like many doctors, right? But if we took pride in our work and made that extra effort to show up for our shift on time, and prepared, things would run more smoothly and pleasant.

When Mr. White and I owned our country store, I would get up every morning before 5 a.m. I had to be ready all day long, until around 11 p.m - just in case I was needed. So I would be nicely dressed and on-call. Sometimes I would have to head across the street to the store, with the children, to help him for a little while. So I had to be ready.  In my  mind, my shift started at 6 a.m. and ended at 11 p.m. During those hours, I was ready and presentable.

Being a homemaker can have starting shifts. We can also joke about it with our children. After bedtime hours, a teenager might ask a question or want to have a late night snack. We mothers could look at our watches (or pretend we have a watch on) and say, "Well, my shift ends in 30 minutes, so I have a little time to help you with that."  When I say this to my older children, they are amused!  But the truth is, we need breaks and we need a stopping point. Perhaps that is 8 p.m. or maybe it is 11 p.m. It depends on your family situation. But certainly set in your mind a starting shift and a time when you are finished.

Maybe all the regular work will be done, or almost done by the end of the shift, and Mom can rest!

Blessings
Mrs. White

Hard working - The Wife's Job at Home - Doing my Part.

That Extra Effort to Look Nice - Classy Homemaking.

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Erin's Holiday Entertaining Guide

Every month, for the last year, I have written a recipe for Erin Chase, over at $5 dinners.  My job is to focus on feeding teenagers for $10 or less. I appreciate Erin's commitment to helping families save money at the grocery store. She shares wonderful ideas at her site and has also published a few books.

Her latest book is perfect for this time of year. It is her "Holiday Entertaining Guide." She shares advice on budgeting, What things you must have, marketing and coupon tips, a plan to cook everything using only one oven, and how to make amazing meals out of leftovers. She even includes 30 affordable recipes!

She also shares ideas for entertaining guests, like providing a homey atmosphere, suggested conversation starters, inexpensive decorating, getting the children involved, reducing stress and learning to thrive through the holidays.

This book can be downloaded to your favorite e-reader, or get the PDF and interactive flash bundle.

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When Mother Bakes

I do a lot of my baking in the late afternoon, or in the evening.  I have the most energy then. It also seems like I get an audience whenever I am in the kitchen. Someone always stops by to talk to me, or visit, or just make me laugh.

Having Baked Goods Ready for Guests

One night last week, I pulled the first batch of chocolate chip cookies out of the oven when Amy's boyfriend came by to pick her up. He brought her roses. (They looked so pretty decorating our parlour table.) Just before they left, I handed him a small lunch bag with some of the warm cookies wrapped in wax paper. He loved them!

Entertaining my Teenager Daughter

The other night, I was kneading bread dough while Amy sat near me, to keep me company. She was telling me all her news.  Then she noticed something I didn't realize I was doing. I was standing on my toes while I worked! She laughed and was so entertained.  I guess it is easier for me to do my kitchen work on my toes! But really, I  was in my socks and wasn't wearing my heels.  I am 5' 1" tall and need to be a bit taller when I bake or do my dishes.

A Lesson from my Sweet Young Son

One afternoon, when Matthew (now 18) was only 3 years old, I was busy making pizza dough. I kneaded and rolled it out. He came into the kitchen with a grin on his face. He wanted some of the dough to play with. I said, "Maybe some other time. I need all this dough for supper." So he did the cutest thing. He had this sad look on his face and said, over and over again, in a quiet voice - "meanie... meanie...meanie.." I tried not to let him see me laugh.  I realized it was no big deal to give him a little dough to play with, and handed him a small piece. . .  He was so grateful. . .  He gave me a loving smile, like I was his hero, and said (in his sweet baby voice) "You're nicey. I'll never call you meanie again." Then he walked happily out of the room.

Tonight, I am baking cookies again. The house is very quiet. Soothing classical music is playing in the background. I will probably bake mint chocolate chip brownies tomorrow. 

Baking always seems to make me feel nostaligic.

Blessings
Mrs. White

I am thankful for - The Housewife Contract.

A Sweet, Long-lasting Marriage - Are you Still Tricking your Wife?

The morning efforts - Getting Ready to Face the Family.


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When the Storm Clouds Cease

Sometimes, we mothers get so tired of trying to be good financial stewards. We carefully shop, cook and manage so that little is wasted. When a crisis comes, our foundation is shaken and the rain-of-tears starts to fall. . . We feel hopeless and destitute.

It seems that when great trials come, we seek God more.  We rely on Him because we cannot manage the impossible on our own.

Today, as I was driving home from my errands, I realized that all my worries this week had been resolved. I had been through yet another storm, and had survived.

"O ye of little faith." - This passage echoes in my mind from Scripture.


Sometimes I wonder, "Lord, did you decree poverty for me, so I could comfort the poor?"

Blessings
Mrs. White


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If Home Was a Happy Place

Many suffer every day because of sorrow, depression and trials. They have trouble coping.  This happens to teens, mothers, fathers and young adults. It seems that small children are more carefree, and innocent of the dark- clouds in life.

Homes are very precious when they are full of young children to brighten everyone's mood!

We Mothers have the weight of the world on our shoulders when we try to create joy and happiness at home without our spiritual strength. If we can "seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness" the Lord will help us. It will seem almost effortless as His light shines through us.

When you are having a rough time at home, perhaps your teens are angry and moody? Or perhaps your husband is on edge and stressed? Just remember this - instead of thinking about how to solve the problems, or trying out different ideas to make things better - simply spend more time in private prayer, bible reading and letting God worry about it all.

Because if our homes are going to be happy places, in this ungodly world, we need the constant source of light coming through our souls. No human effort will make it work. We need The Lord.

Mother, have you hugged your Bible today?

Blessings
Mrs. White


"Pray, and let God worry." - Martin Luther


The Blessing of - A Wife Who Does Not Complain.

The Classic  - Blue Collar - Working Class - Housewife.

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Preparations for Homekeeping

In the early morning hours, I sit in a dim room thinking about the day. I often read, sip on tea or listen to some quiet music. It is a lovely time to prepare for my homekeeping work.

I have so much to worry and fret about, but I won't indulge in such emotions.  I refuse to give up or give-in to trouble.

I will bake some bread to go with tonight's supper.

I will do laundry, sweep, scrub, and clean the kitchen throughout the day.

I will bake apple cinnamon muffins for the children's snack.

I will listen to a sermon by Charles Stanley about Motherhood.

And then, whenever I can spare a few moments, I will sit in a dimly lit room and think pleasant thoughts about good literature, sermons, classical music, tea time and other inspiring ideas.  This will prepare me for the evening duties.

Refusing to worry about the myriad trials I have each day, will help keep things running smoothly for everyone around me. . .  And if I get a little sad, I will read some comic books .


Blessings
Mrs. White

Peanut Butter Muffins for When the Pantry Runs Low.

A Retreat from all Troubles - Mother's Domain.

When Things are too Busy - Cooking While Holding a Bible.



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Bossy Wives

Marriage of Grace Kelly to Prince Rainier

Many of us nag our husbands. We give them lists of things to do, just like they are our children. We boss, we control, we irritate. Perhaps we do this rarely, or without even noticing, but we all do it.  This morning I caught myself  "offering a suggestion" to my husband about our van repairs that needed to be done.  The look on his face was one of  "I was already planning  to do that, but now I won't because you told me to!"   After I walked out of the room, I realized my mistake. I came back and apologized by telling him a joke I'd seen on the "I Love Lucy" show.

Lucy "disappeared," to get attention, by pretending  she was missing. Fred Mertz told Ricky he shouldn't bother replacing his wife by remarrying. He should just get a parrot to nag and throw away his money.  When I told this to my husband, he laughed.  All was well.

When will I ever learn that my husband has his own agenda? When will I learn that he has his own routine and ways of handling his duties?   Can you just imagine if someone like Grace Kelly tried nagging Prince Rainier? What if our husbands were supreme court judges or high ranking generals in the army and we wives tried telling them what to do? Are our own husbands any less important or intelligent?

Do you know what is interesting? Few husbands nag or boss around their wives. So why do we do it?

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Mrs. White

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The importance of When Mother is Productive.

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Despairing over the Household Allowance

We are living in very tough times. It takes great ingenuity to make our household budgets work. I read about the Great Depression, and how professors were paid monthly. Their wives would make that money last as long as they could. But by the last few days of the month, they had no money left and ate very little. However, because everyone was  in the same situation, it was considered normal. They had a positive attitude and enjoyed their days, despite the end-of-the- month poverty.

We all have our good and bad months, and even our good and bad years, financially speaking.  Yet this is nothing new to our country or to our world.  In History, we read about the very plain and seemingly boring foods families ate. They had things like porridge, bread and milk and a little meat. Nothing like the feasting we modern Americans enjoy today. This indulgence can get out of control. When money is always tight, and we expect to have cookies and cakes and meat and potatoes on a daily basis, we may suffer from a self-perceived misery.

One of the hardest things a housewife has to do, is create interesting, nutritious foods that cost very little. She needs to make sure the family has that feeling of "plenty" or "enough," and keep their spirits up. There are two ways that might help motivate her in this:

1. Remember that God has the power to give and withhold wealth. He has good reasons for this. We must have faith that as long as we are doing our part, he will provide for our needs. (For a housewife, this does not necessarily mean she has to earn money. - It means she has to faithfully do her household tasks, and be careful with the funds she is given.)

2.  Look like a million! What I mean is to dress up in nice clothes when you are out shopping. Historically, when a housewife went into town for her marketing or errands, she would put on her gloves, hat, heels and jewelry. She would do her best to look nice.   During the late 1930's and 1940's, while this country was suffering from an epidemic of poverty, the majority of women still looked nice on a daily basis. They made the effort and this helped provide a happy mood for them, and for those around them.

Can you smile throughout the day, despite financial worries? Can you spend several hours a day, cleaning, cooking and "slaving" to make sure your home and kitchen run smoothly, so money is not wasted? 

When payday comes, instead of despairing over your household allowance, look at it as your weekly challenge! Dress up for the job and get to work making everything last! This is your adventure. Make it look like fun, just like Mark Twain painting that old fence.

Blessings
Mrs. White

What do you think? - Only Rich People Have Clean Houses.

How Precious - The Old Sunday Dinner.

The example of Ruth Bell Graham  - I want to be Like the Mothers Before Me.




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Creating a Pleasant Atmosphere at Home

In the early afternoon, I start making preparations for the comfort of my husband and teenagers. I lay out refreshments on the kitchen counter. These are neatly arranged treats and vary by - day, depending on whether or not I baked, or found a sale at the market. Often, there will be a bakery coffee cake, some cookies, fresh bread and fruit. There may even be some cake or brownies. I usually have 2 or 3 different choices waiting for my hungry family to enjoy.

Next, I tidy up the parlour table. This is just our dining room table, since we don't have an eat-in kitchen. On this table, I lay out a box of Checkers,  and a pack of playing cards. At any time, my teenagers can walk by and say, "Hey, who wants to play a game?" Some days, I put out  Yahtzee   or Boggle. I need to get a new game of Scrabble. That would provide a nice variety.

These mere acts of housekeeping are often what people only do when they are expecting guests to visit. However, it is something we can do for our families on a daily basis.

Once I set up the games and the refreshments, I will put on some classical music while I do some cleaning. Then I head off to read before it is time to start making dinner.

blessings
Mrs. White

Yearning for The Romance of Home.

Very Precious - The Sweet Voice in the Kitchen.

What Mother has Done - The Bills in the Whitman's Box.


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The Grace Card Movie - DVD - Giveaway

Movie (DVD) - The Grace Card  (Christian Film)

Rating - PG - 13

This action packed movie is fascinating.  I love that it has a strong Christian message. I also love that Louis Gossett, Jr. is one of the actors!

The story starts with a tragic accident that causes bitterness and pain in the father, Mac. He is a police officer and sees crime and suffering on a daily basis. He is bitter and judgemental, but there is a heart somewhere inside him.  His interaction with his wife and teenage son is hard to watch, but very common in today's homes. Many can relate to the sacrifices parents make for their children, which seem to go unnoticed and unappreciated. How this all plays out in Officer Mac's life is encouraging and inspiring. The People and events which were brought into his life, can happen to any of us. It gave me hope, as I watched, seeing grace and long-suffering in action.  I was absolutely delighted with how his fellow officer (and partner) handled him, prayed for him, and never gave up, no matter how much he wanted to.  I was also inspired by the many Christian people, in his everyday life, who helped bring healing to Mac and his family.

The film has a strong message to help alleviate racial prejudices.  This came through so clearly, that I could see it working in many kinds of relationships - neighbors, co-workers and even family members. 

Overall, it is an excellent film, which made me cry repeatedly. I highly recommend it for older teens and adults. 


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How a Housewife Passes the Time

We've all read scores of stories about homemakers who had "work baskets." These contained knitting and mending projects, or some kind of embroidery. Women would carry these with them when visiting friends. They would also keep them in the parlour for when they had a break from housekeeping. They would work with their hands to be productive while they passed the time.

One of my favorite things to do is read. I have scholarly books, fun books, and instructive books. I also have some  Charlie Brown Comics,  which make me smile.  One in particular, PEANUTS TREASURY, was published in 1968, and contains comics from the 50's and 60's. There are two charming comics in there that are adorable, because they provide for us a glimpse to the past.  Young Sally (Charlie's sister) is worried about going to school for the first time. She bolts up in bed and says something like, "When I  grow up, I want to be a housewife . . . Why should I have to go to Kindergarten?"  In another comic, she talks about how she has no interest in learning new math, because she has no need for that as a future housewife.  While a future housewife should certainly go to school and learn math and other skills, I loved how innocent Sally was about it all.  I also love the way girls were encouraged, at that time, to aspire to be housewives.

I have to find another good book to enjoy today. I will place it on the little table beside my chair in the parlour. I usually sit over there, near the window, and drink my tea.  I will read when I finish my kitchen duties. The house is generally quiet at this time of day.  Reading makes for a pleasant way to start the day.

Later, as it gets colder, here in Vermont, I will find a hand-sewing project to work on while I sit by the fire.  I have no idea what I will make. It will probably be a small quilt. It doesn't really matter. The fun is in the sewing and being available to talk and  laugh with the family while I work. It is a restful, peaceful routine for the winter.

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Mrs. White

The importance of The Vision of Home.

Make it look like The Maid was Here.

Come here, my precious ones, back to the security of your-  Childhood Home as the Nursery.


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Recording the History of a Family

Civil Marriage Ceremony, 1800's

When a relative died, a few years ago, we sat together at the family's main house and looked through the large family Bible. The matriarch of the home had recorded many historical family events. It was nice to see when Grandpa was ordained as a minister, and the number of children born through the generations. I saw the names of close relatives who had died as babies. I also saw when someone joined the army or had some accomplishment.

Recently, I read how an Amish family had a history book of their family. They would pull this out and read over the family names and events and share it with the children and grandchildren.

I was thinking, this morning, that I will create a little book for our immediate family. It will start with the marriage ceremony of Mr. White and I, and then chronicle our lives throughout the years. I will add to it as we go along. There will be little notes and newspaper clippings, like when our daughter made the paper, or when we owned our store. But most of it will include select photographs, little memories, and dates and events.

It will be a precious, permanent recording of the history of our family - of Mr. and Mrs. White and their descendants.

blessings
Mrs. White

A Living History - Homemaking Links the Generations.

A Joyful Time of Serving the Family - Spending the Day in the Kitchen.

Financial Struggles - How the Old Time Mothers Survived Poverty.



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The Parlour on Sunday Morning



[Roses and a Bible in the Parlour, at Mrs. White's House]


Early Sunday mornings are a great time of holy expectation. The house has been cleaned and ready for a special day.  There are distant echoes of church bells ringing in the village square. The family will soon be up, dressed in their best, and heading off to church services.

I miss going to church. I haven't been able to go in such a long time. But I trust the Lord to provide a way for me someday soon. We have had car trouble for a few months. We can drive locally, but my favorite church is far away. I would have to get on the interstate. Since I cannot go this Sunday, I will remember Sundays past. I will imagine what it is like walking through the doors of the sanctuary and being greeted by an usher, and handed a bulletin. I will remember sitting in a pew and looking at a hymn book. I will remember the gentle hellos from congregants and smiling faces as we all prepare for the service. I will be there in my mind and heart.

But for now, I will sit in the parlour, in my favorite chair near the window. . . and I will read my Bible in the quiet of the morning.

Blessings
Mrs. White

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Early Morning Housekeeping

As the sun rises in the morning, the house is quiet and peaceful. I love to make some tea, turn on a lamp and settle in my favorite chair to read for a bit. . . This is like taking a break before any work is done.  It is a rich feeling.

Soon enough, it is time to sweep and wash and do laundry. It is time to make food and welcome the family to a new day.

I listen to the quiet sound of classical music. It helps provide some culture in our home and keeps my mood serene. 

My morning routine includes:

1. Fixing my hair and putting on a pretty apron.
2. Washing dishes.
3. Putting the "parlour" in order.
4. Polishing the stove.
5. Sipping on hot tea from a pretty cup.
6. Starting the laundry.

Once these things are finished, I do my Bible study, while sitting by the window.

Starting the day with a positive housekeeping attitude makes it more enjoyable. It is like an act of artistic, creativity. 

Blessings
Mrs. White



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A Mother of Sinners

It is a somber and sad day when Mother realizes her children are sinners. There is something called "The Depravity of Man" - and a "sin nature." These are things our children will fight against, each day, for the rest of their lives. It causes them great pain and suffering.  But it hurts Mom the most. . .

The sad realization is when you have young adults and teenagers who try so hard to walk the road of righteousness, but keep getting distracted by the world. They come home full of adventurous experiences - some thrilling, some heartbreaking - but there is sadness in their eyes and marks from the thorns.  There is no pure holiness in them, like you once thought there would be, when they were baby-cherubs in your eyes.  There is dirt and filth because. . frankly. . . your children have been dangerously playing in the world. And it will tear your heart out. . .

Others will see and mock. They are like closet-pharisees who think they are above depravity. This is the saddest thing of all - when your fellow Christian man gives up on your family and walks away - as if YOU, as the mother, did something wrong.

But I know a secret. . .

It is to never give up. I learned this in profound ways from some very precious Mothers - Erma, Emma and Edith:

Emma  (1950's)

Emma was Old Order Amish and became a widow at a young age. She was left with six children to raise, alone at home, and with the help of her Amish community.  She watched as young people experimented with the rules and "English" world around them. She was terrified as they did things that were dangerous to their souls. She prayed in secret and received constant comfort and reassurance from The Master.  But most of her children left the church to join more progressive churches.  The culture was rapidly changing and it was seeping into the Amish world.  One of the important things I learned from Emma was this:

She did not try to convince her children of the old ways - she lived it.  When her teenagers and young adults were living questionable lives, she let it all play out and let them learn their lessons. Why did she do this? She knew the Holy Spirit was working in their lives and God was in control. While she certainly advised them and got help and support from the elders, her daily practice as a mother was to let them learn to make decisions for themselves so they could grow.  The hardest lesson I learned from Emma was that, since we live in a rapidly decaying culture, our children are not always going to follow our old paths. They are facing new challenges in each generation - new temptations - and living in a culture that we never would have imagined.  Through it all, and despite the pain, she knew how to remain Amish. The lesson: stand fast in your faith, mother, regardless of the path your children take.

 Erma   (1960's)

In Erma's time, there was free love. Teenagers were spitting on the ground their parents walked on, and forsaking traditional family. They were shacking up and doing all manner of drugs. They hated our country and hated decency. They brought a downfall of horror to our society. When they did this, they only said, "peace," but they were deluded.

Erma had an amazing sense of humor, as a mother. She was a beloved columnist who shared her life with millions of readers. She encouraged them and made them laugh, even when they wanted to cry. Through all the pain and frustration of raising her children to be decent, God fearing citizens, she did the most important thing of all - she did not give up.


 Edith   (1970's)

As the war on our culture raged, feminism (or as some call, it - nazi-feminism) was raging strong. Edith, the traditional housewife, who was dedicated to her family, putting them first above all things - had a feminist daughter and a liberal son-in-law. The amazing thing about Edith is that she stayed who she was. She did not bend to the will of society - she did not become like her daughter - she remained a steadfast example of home, family and motherhood - and she did it all without pushing her views on anyone. She did it in silence. Her example meant more to a nation, on that television screen, even though the show was meant to belittle her. Even Erma loved her and said the world needed more Ediths.


No matter what we see in our children, on the surface, we have no idea what kind of work God is doing behind the scenes. He is laying the groundwork for their future. He is allowing them to wallow in things in order to gain experience in life, and to know and understand heartache. He is teaching them things we could never teach them. So, dear Mother of sinners, no matter what is going on in the lives of your children, remember this - a virtuous godly mother who is unflinching in her faith, while full of flaws herself, is the greatest testimony to her children than any words you could utter. Mother, ignore the pharisees, and stay strong and brave. In the very end, your children will rise up and call you blessed. 

"Blessed is the man that trusteth in the Lord, and whose hope the Lord is." Jeremiah 17:7

Blessings
Mrs. White

A Mission of Mercy - The Sum of Godly Motherhood.

Very, very hard times - Trouble with Teenagers.

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Domestic Incentives

We all have our off-days when we don't want to do anything. Why is it that we need motivation to do our housework? I remember telling myself, one early morning when I didn't want to get out of bed, "If Mr. White gave you $500 and said, 'go shopping today and buy anything you want.'" I would promptly get up, with lots of energy. So it has to be a "mood" when we don't feel like being productive at home.

I remember reading one of  Erma's   books and she was talking about this (in the 1960's). She said one housewife treated herself to a cocktail at 9 in the morning just for making the coffee.

Why do we need incentives? Perhaps because we are surrounded by a culture where few seem to care about homemaking. It is something we have to fight against each day. So if you need to have a cookie as a reward for doing the laundry - go right ahead!

Blessings
Mrs. White

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Cooking for Mister

I have this old 1963 cookbook published by Better Homes and Gardens.* It has a section in the front called, "Meals Men Like." The introduction says:

"Fix any of these delicious meals for your man and you'll be the 'Best Cook' he knows."

A sample menu:

"Stew Supper Supreme"

 

Old-time Beef Stew

Crisp Cabbage Slaw

Bread      Butter

Apple Betty Pie

Coffee      Cream and Sugar

The directions suggest serving the pie with vanilla ice cream! The description for the stew says it will serve "6 to 8 hungry folks" and a "go-with" would include "thick slices of bread."

It sounds like a delicious meal! Sometimes, when we create a little menu, it makes the experience extra special.

How many housewives today are making a real old fashioned supper for their husbands? How many of us dress up nicely for when he comes home from work, and make his environment peaceful? Certainly it is difficult when we have small children, but even if we did some of our cooking early in the day we could heat it up in the evening.

Cooking for Mister. . .  When a wife makes pleasant, home cooked meals and serves them cheerfully, that man will be eager to leave work and head back to his family. It's like he has his own little restaurant, at the greatest place on earth - HOME!

Blessings
Mrs. White

* The Cookbook is  So - Good Meals  


The importance of Making Chores Fair for Children.

Is it Possible? Rising While it is Yet Night.

The Old - Time Tradition of The House Dress.





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The Purple Parlour

During the summer, we painted our parlour. Well, actually, Mr. White did the painting. I just watched.   We emptied the room of everything except the main furniture, which was placed in the center of the room and covered with sheets. The old white walls were soon covered with a light pastel purple and it looked charming!

We have some lovely paintings on the wall. Do you see those two antique chairs with the lamp between them? The chairs came with this 1850's house, (or "museum" as I like to say!). The lamp was in the guest room of my Aunt's Massachusetts home when I was a little girl.  The hutch was purchased at a used furniture store, here in Vermont, many years ago. I keep some of my cookbooks on the main shelf. I also have pictures of the children on there, from when they were little. I love seeing their baby pictures. It always makes me smile!

Why do I call this a parlour? It would normally be called a living room, but we don't have a couch or television in there. Instead, this is our cozy  main room, where we read, visit, play cards, and entertain guests. Calling it a parlour is much more fitting.

Throughout the day, I enjoy tidying up this special place. I like to keep it clean. The children will bring in their projects; scatter shoes, coats and books, and I am constantly finding joy in neatly putting everything "to rights."   If the family did not make a mess in there, I would not be able to enjoy this room as much as I do, because I delight in  making it sparkle!

Blessings
Mrs. White

More pictures of my  house - An Elegant Home Despite Poverty.

For the overworked Mother -  The Homemaker's Despair.

Before I got married, I agreed to The Housewife Contract.

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A Lancaster County Christmas - Review

Book - A Lancaster County Christmas  by Suzanne Woods Fisher

Publisher - Revell

Hardcover, 198 pages




This story is a clash of two worlds. An "English' (non-Amish) couple end up stranded at an Amish home, at Christmas time. They have their worldly problems, but are exposed to a simple Amish life. On the other hand, The Amish family is dealing with their own trials. It is interesting to see how they interact with one another.

I enjoyed the description of daily Amish life, but found the story line a bit stressful for me. I was hoping to read a peaceful Christmas story, but it was more like real life - with troubles and trials! (smiles)  There was also a lot of information about owls that didn't interest me.  The owls were something that fascinated the young Amish boy in the family.

Overall, it is well written, interesting and entertaining.

*Disclosure - I received a copy of this book for review purposes.*

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The Skilled Housewife

Keeping house is more than just doing dishes, or ironing clothes. It is more than fixing supper or washing floors. Being a housewife is a skilled profession. In the old days, girls took home economics courses in school. Some even went to college to study the science of homemaking.  It is a beautiful thing to see a lovely, cared for home, even if there are humble surroundings.

Housewives need to learn the art of cooking, baking, sewing, mending, decorating, cleaning, thrift and so much more. They need to take pride in their work, putting forth their best effort.

The other night I was washing the dishes, while listening to  Crooners  on the radio.  I thought of how there are so many people who hate their jobs, and I was thankful that I loved mine. I love being here. I am grateful for the training I've had, and the experience I have in homemaking. I delight in setting an atmosphere of "home" for all who enter.

I took 3 years of home economics in school. I also studied for four years as a secretary, which taught me how to be a helper and assistant to my husband. It also taught me how to manage books and keep things organized and efficient.  I worked as a maid and spent much of my time taking care of children. All this happened before I turned 18 years old. I was taught how to keep house. I was trained in the art of homemaking and motherhood. For this I am eternally grateful.

Blessings
Mrs. White

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Kitchen Sermons

The past few days, I have been listening to sermons while working in the kitchen. I love taking my time, polishing the counters and washing dishes and listening to an inspiring sermon.

Each day I have chosen one sermon to enjoy. I have heard Dr. John MacArthur talk about the economy; Dr. Harold Sightler describe the blessings of all the food fed to thousands just from one small lunch, in "What Are They Among So Many?" I had tears in my eyes as Dr. Clyde Box preached on "A Faithful Man, Who can Find?" A few of these ministers are southern, and will shout at times. It certainly startles me out of a spiritual sloth!

Sometimes the children will walk into the room while I am working. They want to talk, so I pause the sermon. I listen to the children and then turn the CD back on. The preaching echoes throughout the house. It is like propaganda in the home - good propaganda that nourishes the soul.

The endless daily chores in the kitchen are ideal times for listening to sermons. Knowing there is something special to listen to while I work makes me eager to do my duties.

Blessings
Mrs. White

Just an ordinary, Blue Collar- Working Class- Housewife.

A Calling -   The Romance of Home.




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The Gift of A Computer

This past July I wrote about my computer trouble. After writing, almost daily, on this blog for more than 2 years, my computer died.  It was shocking. Mr. White and I had saved for years to buy that computer. Now it was gone.  Of course I went through a withdrawal period . .  I missed writing my visits, and doing my review work. It was hard to adjust.

But slowly, I began to accept it. I visited my local library once or twice a week and did my best to keep up the blog. I wrote when I could.  It was much harder to write on my way home from an errand, when I was used to writing early in the morning while my family was still sleeping.

Many times I had ideas for posts, but had to let them go. Instead, I focused more on home, cleaning, baking and regular life. But I missed those morning visits.

At some point, I accepted that I would not have another computer. I gave up. . .

That's when it happened. . . Someone in my area gave me their old laptop computer!   I could not believe it! I was so grateful!

I have spent the last 2 weeks learning to use it. A few days ago, Mr. White set up an area in our house, with an old desk for me.  I now have a quiet, special place for my "new" laptop.   This is a tremendous blessing!

I am ready to get back to writing on a regular basis. Thank you so much for your patience!

Blessings
Mrs. White

The importance, and preciousness, of Mother's Labors.

Encouragement for the Homemaker, Let us Not Be Weary.

Homeschooling  - Education Must Not Be Rushed.





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An Old Fashioned House

I saw a picture of a lovely, old Victorian cottage. It was being sold in a nice area, here in Vermont. However, the price was so high, it made me sad. Why? Because it was packed with modern updates. There were stainless steel appliances, a "granite chef's kitchen," and "Quakermaid oak cabinets." But wait. . it gets worse. . . there is a "new Kohler bathroom." All these modern, high-end touches, make the price prohibitive for lower middle class families. If the house had just been left in its "old fashioned" state, with basic repairs, a little paint and some cleaning, it would have been absolutely charming! It would have been affordable to a low-income family, who would have been thrilled to own it.

People, in these days, forget that creativity and hard work are what make an inexpensive home lovely and valuable.

I remember watching a home- and- garden program. Viewers toured the home of an elderly woman who wanted to sell it. As the kitchen came into view, I saw the most beautiful cabinets I had ever seen! These were painted a sage color and the owner had stenciled delicate vines to make a subtle trim around the edges. There were tiny hints of pale colored flowers. It looked lovely! However, the realtor advised the owner to replace those cabinets, saying that buyers today want modern, neutral fixtures. While that is generally true, something is being lost in our culture, when old fashioned houses are being replaced with modern, elegant features which is only affordable to dual-income career couples and the upper class.

Mr. White and I have a 3 story colonial house. It is 150 years old. We had some visitors come by in our first year here. They were retired, wealthy relatives. They looked around and said it would cost us a fortune to update this place. They shook their heads and said we had a lot of work to do. I cannot comprehend that mind-set. Why would I modernize this charming old house? Why would I not cherish it as the "museum" that it is? I love my large drafty rooms and my large, old windows. I love the old chimney and the homemade "Yankee" * kitchen cabinets. The charm of this house is that it is affordable, lovely, and vintage. . .  This is truly an old fashioned house. I can only hope that there are still many more out there.

Blessings
Mrs. White

* The term "Yankee" implies New England ingenuity, by making do with what we have while using  little or no money.

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Movie - The Shunning DVD - Giveaway

Movie -  The Shunning  (based on the Amish book by Beverly Lewis.)

Running Time - 88 minutes

Price - $16.99

This Christian based movie was produced and directed by Michael Landon, Jr. It is a beautifullly done production. The secenery, the actors, the settings are all lovely. The story line was well acted. I love the elderly woman in the story, who appeared briefly. Her wisdom was inspiring.

The story centers around an Amish young lady about to be married to the Bishop, who is a widow with sons. Just before this happens, she finds out that she was adopted as a baby and her real  mother was one of the "English." It is heartbreaking to see her struggle with this news. The procedure of Amish "shunning" is vividly and devastatingly portrayed.  The ending was encouraging and I sincerely hope there is a part two!

The Giveaway:

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