A Genteel Christmas Gathering

I have been up since early this morning, preparing for a Christmas gathering. The rest of my children will be coming home tomorrow.  We live in a rural area in Northern Vermont and the snowy landscape is lovely. There is a quietness at our Estate that is like a retreat.  The children are coming home from the city.  They are coming back to the old homestead for a happy time of eating and visiting.

Lately I cannot keep up with the messes my family makes. I have full charge of the care of my 15 month old grandbaby, along with my regular housekeeping duties.  Sometimes the men in our house are helpful with the cooking and cleaning but they don't "love" the house the way a Mother does.   My two boys, at 16 and 21 are "The Uncles" to grandbaby.  They help me with his care.  I am weary and slow-stepped. 

I have a great many plans for today to prepare for tomorrow's gathering. I want to bake and cook.  I want to make special treats for the children to take back home with them.  Things like homemade fudge, sugar cookies and muffins will go into little tins for them.   But I will do this in a very slow and steady way.  I turned on an old sermon on my kitchen Radio by the late Evangelist, Dr. John R. Rice.  It is "The Christian and His Bible."  This is such a tremendous source of Spiritual nourishment, it makes the work in the kitchen a joy to the heart.

Soon baby will be awake and my focus will shift almost entirely to his care. He will play in his highchair while I make batters and doughs.  We will sing together and see all the snow out the parlour window.  Then one of the Uncles will take him out to play before his afternoon nap.  There will be times of quiet and times of hustle, as we prepare for a happy Christmas gathering.

Yet, I know that nothing will make this family time wonderful without a loving, humble attitude.  Whether all gets done or not, is not the goal. It is the process of creating and of homemaking that will bring delight to our home. It is the happy smile and the effort that counts.  It is the thought and the love that will make it all worthwhile.

 I may, at times, be in the midst of cleaning a mess, or burning one batch of cookies, as I go along, but the sweet kindness that I spread, like rainbows in the middle of rain, is what will cheer the hearts of all.

Blessings
Mrs. White

From the Archives:

Recovering from the world - Lingering by the Hearth.

We dearly Need this - Homemaking Propaganda.

A Summer Visit to our Property - Tour of the Estate Grounds.



Mrs. White's special book for Homemakers - "Mother's Book of Home Economics."




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Crowned with Silver

In the 1990's and early 2000's, we homemakers were greatly encouraged by an old fashioned magazine called, "Crowned with Silver."   Each issue taught us the history of feminism and how it was destroying modern homes.  It was gently, and sweetly done and a blessing to learn.

We also read old stories from the 1800's and 1900's that inspire families - just like those old fireside readings.  We read articles about old fashioned child training and keeping our homes nice and our pantries full. 

There was a small pen pal section where mothers and daughters could find like-minded friends to correspond with. 

Late yesterday afternoon, I found one issue of the magazine online.  I believe it was the last issue, or close to last issue, before they ceased publication (when the editor passed away).  It is the Summer 2007 edition.   The main article is called, "My Wife Took My Job" by Mrs. Anna Neumas.  She spoke about how a husband was heartbroken because his wife had decided to divorce him.  The court gave her the children because she was earning much more money than he was.  She was very successful in her work and didn't think she needed him any more.  Mrs. Neumas went on to explain The Industrial Revolution and Women's Rights Movement, and the ungodly thinking that lured wives and mothers out of the home.  The article is excellent and will greatly encourage we homemakers who are committed to our calling at home. (I hope you are able to read this article.  I have embedded the file, of the entire issue, below.)

I dearly wish "Crowned with Silver" was still in print and could continue for many years to encourage each generation. If it was ever possible to get it back into publication, I would be proud and honored to help in any way I could.

Here is the issue I found.  Please feel welcome to share it with as many as you can.

Blessings
Mrs. White

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Snowy Days at our Vermont Estate

Grandbaby and I went on a horse-drawn carriage ride this weekend. We had the Uncles with us. "The Uncles" are my sons John (16) and Matt (20).   Uncle Matt wore his wool overcoat and a pair of sunglasses. He looked charming.  He held baby.  Baby loves both of his Uncles, but when there are difficult things to do, Uncle Matt is the one baby reaches for.   He held baby and comforted him during the entire ride. Baby felt safe and secure and very happy.

It is cozy here at home. Our wood stove is blazing and the gospel music is playing quietly in the background.  We will make a small batch of sugar cookies late this afternoon.

It can get bitterly cold here with temperatures below zero.  We have to close up some of the house to maintain heat in only a few of the rooms.  Our parlour is the main room where we keep it mostly cozy. It is attached to our kitchen. We put up a pretty floral quilt in the hall doorway to block out any cold drafts. It makes things look vintage and old fashioned to have a curtain - of - sorts for a door!

Mothers in the old days would stuff newspapers in windowsills and cracks in the walls to help keep out the chill.  Can you imagine how cold it must have been (before modern heating and plumbing) when families would wake up and find a sheet of ice over the water in a washbasin on cold winter mornings?

With heating costs so high, we have to work on overcoming depression and sadness on the coldest of days. We have to bundle up and think of our extra efforts at warmth as an adventure!  We may notice the pretty snow outside and decide to make a hot cup of tea or hot chocolate to provide an extra sense of comfort and warmth.  Knitting or crocheting by the fire (or electric heater) are nice ways to stay warm.   If one can bake or cook something special, it will certainly help heat up the kitchen.  It is good to set a "mood" or create an "ambiance" of home.

I love having a little lamp in my kitchen.  It adds a sense of gentleness to our evenings.  In just a little while, I will wash dishes and start supper.  Grandbaby will sit in his highchair and play while I work. I will give him little treats and little toys as I go along.  Then baby and I will sit by the window and look at the snowy landscape and enjoy the view from the second story of this 1800's Estate. It shall be another pleasant day in Vermont.

Blessings
Mrs. White


From the Archives:

Are you doing this? - Creating a 1950's Like Childhood.

Keeping family Bible Time on Busy nights -  Cooking While Holding a Bible.

The foundation of a Christian Mother's Home - The Mission House.




Mrs. White's special book for Homemakers - "Mother's Book of Home Economics."




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Getting Ready for a New Baby

I have this little booklet from "Coats and Clark's." It is called "Baby Book of Knitting and Crochet." It was published in 1958. The price on the cover is 29 cents.  It is full of patterns of classically simple sweaters, bonnets, and little booties!  It is adorable.

I am no expert at knitting, but am going to take on the incredible challenge of making a set of charming items.

We are expecting a new grandbaby. This one is a dear little girl and will arrive at the estate sometime early next year.  My daughter is so happy and her pregnancy is going well.  She and grandboy have been our guests for several months, while her husband is away.  They will continue to stay with us through birth and recovery. I am delighted!

I want to make a set of bonnet, mittens and booties in a dusty rose. I want to make another set in a delicate plum.  Then I want to make a little afghan in pink and white! 

I will have my knitting projects by my chair near the hearth in our cozy parlour.  I will work when visiting with the family, or watching my grandbaby as he plays in the playpen.  This will be a challenge with the trouble I have with my hands.  (They swell and hurt at times.)  I will have to give up some other hobby or activity to make time for this endeavor.  I may hand over some of the housework to one of the children!  (gentle smiles) 

I can just imagine this new little baby dressed in such sweet, charming clothing, and surrounded by things handmade with love.

Blessings
Mrs. White


From the Archives:

Peaceful time at Home - The Morning Work.

No Matter the Financial Trials, Being here is important - A Humble Parlour As a School of Theology.

The Blessing of - A Formal Dinner.





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Dear Christmas Mothers

The holiday season of Thanksgiving and Christmas is centered around the home.  While the culture around us encourages shopping and spending, it would be so nice to be comforted in the art of Christian homemaking and motherhood.  There is a new book that just may help us!

"Dear Christmas Mothers" is a sweet homemaking book, which was just published!  The author shares precious letters about her days as an Iowa housewife - a wife, mother and grandmother.  Her letters are about what she is doing in her home for Christmas.  A selection of 17 letters, from a period of 5 years of her writings were chosen to make this little book.  These are from 2000 to 2005.

As you read, you will be encouraged.  You will enjoy a literary visit to an Iowa home.  You will learn about how Christmas used to be, and how it can be.  

This book would make a lovely gift for yourself, or for any mother who loves home. 

It was written by Mrs. Connie Hultquist, the author of "Dear Kitchen Saints."

- "Dear Christmas Mothers"

paperback, 116 pages.






Blessings
Mrs. White



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A Rainy Visit

There is a gentle rain falling on this early November morning. I was getting ready to do the morning work but didn't want to turn on the lamps. The dim, dreariness of the outdoors was almost charming.

I have to take care of Grandbaby in just a little while.  When he wakes up, all other activities must be dropped, for baby must have all my attention.  So please forgive me if this writing stops abruptly.

Mister and I did a little shopping last evening.  We had a tight budget for groceries this week because we had some other necessary expenses that took quite a bit of money.  It will be better in a few days.

I have all kinds of things to cook and bake; but plan to be quiet and enjoy the rainy day.  It puts one in a mood for just reading by the window, and having a simple day without any worries.

I baked cornbread to go with a late afternoon lunch yesterday.  I will bake a pumpkin pie (frozen) this morning.  It brings a warming sense of happiness because it brings a delightful scent to the kitchen.

I still have to clean the parlour and work on the kitchen, but wanted to have a quick little visit with you.

Have a wonderful day!

blessings
Mrs. White

From the Archives:

Won't you be one of these? - A Good Little Housewife.

The joy and peace of simplicity - The Basics of Lovely Housekeeping.

Mister and I took one of these - A Vow of Poverty.







A special book for Homemakers - "Mother's Book of Home Economics."




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Keeping House while Staying Sane

Each day, I have plans and chores I set out to accomplish. I am usually able to get things done in a leisurely, happy way. But more often, some hurricane or tornado comes in and makes me struggle to keep my footing. These "storms" can be grumpy relatives (gentle smiles), troubled teens, sickness, a husband with a completely different outlook on life, or some painful turmoil attacking the family. 

I have learned that I cannot change.  I cannot alter my path because of the negative circumstances. I have to stay calm and focused.

I cannot dwell on moods. I cannot wallow in sorrow or pity. I cannot grumble or allow misery and indignation over the unfairness of it all destroy my daily walk in life.

One of the things I do is read a sweet, calming book.  My favorite, of course, is anything by Elizabeth Prentiss (1800's). I have also been reading "Lessons at Blackberry Inn" by Karen Andreola.  This is a sweet work of fiction about a family living out in the country. It is a pleasant read and a diversion from regular life.

 I am not one of those people who want to be "supported" in misery. I do not want to read about suffering, or other mothers dealing with trouble. I want to be "calmed" and "centered" and brought to a peaceful place so I can adjust my attitude and get back to setting the example of godly living for my family.  We are told in Scripture that "iron sharpens iron."  Godly influence, wholesome christian literature, and wise Christian friends keep us sweet and dedicated to our noble work.  But if we dwell among the writings of anger, and suspense, and high-alert, we are going to be anything but calm and sweet. Our temper, our spirit, will be troubled. We cannot safely walk a gentle path when we are wallowing with comrades of misery.

So today, even though my circumstances are greatly troubled, I will live as happily and calmly as I can.  I will do my housework and sing hymns. I will take care of "precious" (my grandbaby). I will make a pleasant supper and do a little baking.  I will find comfort in my faith and I will keep looking up. I will not notice the storms around me. . . because we all know that no one can walk on water, unless one's eyes are on the Lord.

blessings
Mrs. White


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Pleasant Hours of Housework

I was reading a bit from "Farmer Boy," by Laura Ingalls Wilder.  I had already cleaned the parlour, swept the floors and did some dishes. I had fed grandbaby and settled him down for his nap.  As I read, I was intrigued and inspired by how Ma and Pa Wilder industriously kept the farm.

There was certain heavy work that happened at specific seasons.  Ice was carved out and stacked in the ice house.  This was the main work at hand, for days, in addition to daily chores.  When the men finished with this, the ice was all set for the coming year.

 Later, in springtime, the maple trees were tended to.  Here in Vermont, this is a common event. Much of life stops while the sap is "running."  The sap is gathered and boiled and processed.  For Mother Wilder, much of it became cakes of maple sugar.  The rest was saved in jugs as the year's supply of syrup!

Oh, then it was time for the entire house to be cleaned! The carpets were un-tacked and taken outside to be cleaned.  The rooms were emptied and washed and scrubbed!  They were also whitewashed and made ready for the next season.   

While Pa worked with the fields, in his workshop, in the barns, and kept busy with his chores. Ma made large, delicious meals and kept a lovely home.  Ma also had a workroom where she kept a loom and made the family's clothes!

Well, this all got me thinking. . . And all I wanted to do was dust the house, sweep the rooms and vacuum the carpets! I wanted to wash windows and then take a little rest before I started the great task of preparing the evening meal.  These were just little jobs.  These are jobs that are re-done on a regular basis. But as each task is "done," there is a sense of pride for the hard work being accomplished to make home a happy, special place.

These are the pleasant hours we spend at home, doing the housework. 

blessings
Mrs. White



From the Archives:

Days full of Good deeds for Mother and children - Mother's Benevolent Society.

Here are the details on the latest publication at "The Legacy of Home." - Mother's Book of Home Economics.

For the very bad days of Motherhood. - Trouble with Teenagers.






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Mother's Book of Home Economics

My new book was just published today! 

It is designed specifically to encourage the Christian wife and mother at home. 

Here are the details:

 


Title:  Mother's Book of Home Economics: Remembrances, Letters and Essays from a New England Housewife

Author:  Mrs. Sharon White

Publisher:  The Legacy of Home Press

6" x 9" Paperback, 312 pages.












Description from the Back Cover:

"There are many Home Economics books that will teach you important facts, such as how to get out a stain; how to clean your oven; or how to read food labels. This is all valuable information. We should certainly have those kinds of books in our homes. Nonetheless, did you ever just want to enter someone's home and observe how it all works in daily life? Did you ever want to learn about how a family used to keep house, or how it is working today?

   "Mother's Book of Home Economics" will give you that personal touch of Homemaking. It covers subjects like Marriage, Cleaning, Child Care, Manners, Simple Living, Motherhood, Thrift and Holiness. Here you will find a variety of letters, essays and memories about Home Economics. This was written by a New England Housewife, who has been married for more than 25 years."


There are 121 short chapters, compiled from 4 years of blog writing.

The Index in the back of the book loosely categorizes everything by the following topics:

1. Child Care
2. Cleaning
3. Etiquette
4. Finances
5. Holiness
6. Homemaking
7. Hospitality
8. Kitchen
9. Marriage

Some of the chapter titles include:

1. Chalkboard Prayers
2. How to Teach a 2 - Year old To Clean
3. Mother's Benevolent Society
4. Bossy Wives
5. Saturday Morning Chores
6. How the Old Time Mothers Survived Poverty
7. Home as a Little Christian School
8. Cooking for Mister
9. The Housewife Contract
10. Walking the Gardens with Baby

"The writings are designed to encourage the Christian housewife.  You will feel supported in your decision to stay home and care for your family.  You will also notice a gentle nudging to live the old paths, and find peace there."



- Mother's Book of Home Economics.


Thank you!

blessings
Mrs. White



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Lingering by the Hearth

There is a room in the house, where everyone goes to recover from the world.  It is a place of warmth and safety.  It is the parlour.  Here one finds a cozy fire in the fireplace; comfortable chairs to rest in; and perhaps a little table for refreshments or a game of checkers.

It takes a little effort to keep the room clean and looking pleasant.  The windows must be washed, the curtains ironed and tidy; the floor swept and the furniture dusted.  This room ought to be cleaned on a daily basis, and sometimes more often than that.  It is the room for hospitality to refresh the residents and guests who enter.

Sometimes, when one is so weary from the world, or the day's work, one does not want to leave the parlour just yet. That is when the family lingers by the hearth.  The warm glow of the fire, and the pleasant room, strengthens the soul and delights the heart.

We Homemakers must do our very best to keep a little pleasant "hearth" (even if it is just a small heater) for the happiness and rest of our families.

blessings
Mrs. White


From the Archives:

How the children will remember their Mother - Echoes from the Kitchen.

When You are Overwhelmed - Prayers Which Cannot Be Uttered.

Only a Little work needed - The Basics of Lovely Housekeeping.





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Review - My Beloved and My Friend

Book  - My Beloved and My Friend:  How to Be Married to Your Best Friend without Changing Spouses.

Author - Hal and Melanie Young

Publisher - Great Waters Press

Paperback, 250 pages



I have to tell you... the first time I saw the cover of this book, I didn't understand the birds.  After I had an actual copy in my hand and read half of it, I realized it must be an example of "love birds!"

There is something about that saying, "love birds," that make one think of a life-long, happy, relationship.  There is no separating them!

This is really what the Young's book is about - building and maintaining a strong marriage, even in this modern world!

I love that Hal and Melanie worked together to write this book.  They share personal experiences, memories, observations and lots of research.   As parents of 8 children, and married for almost 30 years, they have plenty of insight into family life and marriage!

The tone of the book is open, friendly, conversational - mixed with some powerful lessons, and incredible insight.

They cover topics such as:

 - Who should be the financial provider in the relationship?

-  Handling severe health problems.

-  Reasons and research for the blessing of children (whether there is one child or many).

- Safeguards for the relationship and strength of the marriage (and family).

- Startling research into how the culture has damaged the vision of a godly marriage.

There is one section, in particular, from the book that was significant.  They discuss painful and exhausting health problems and how they kept their marriage strong through it all.  Yet, a more difficult strain on a marriage was briefly described. It was Melanie's grandparents.  Her grandfather was described as a very difficult man.  His wife remained by his side; and in their old age, their love and devotion to one another is incredibly beautiful!

In this book, you may find controversial portions. You may see things you don't agree with.  Yet, the book will get you thinking! It will work as a tool to help make your own marriage strong.

Please realize - We need books like this, that help strengthen marriage! We need them desperately!


This book will be released early next year.  In the meantime, you can pre-order a copy at a special price of $12 (with free shipping), directly from the Youngs.



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War Slogans for a Clean House

I sat some of my teens down this week and asked for help. I needed artwork done. I handed out paper, pencils and crayons.  (That's all we had on hand).  I wrote up a little motivational paper and said I needed it turned into big pages of artwork.

My idea was to motivate the grown children to willingly help more around the house.  What I wrote sounded like a "war slogan" for the homefront.   Here is what my paper said:

"Take Pride in Our Home!

"Do Your Share!"

I thought my teenagers would do something basic and pretty. But they surprised me!

Within 30 minutes, they had created large comic strips, complete with cartoon characters.  One depicted "Dean" who had a full time job, and still came home to clean his house. He urged readers to clean too!

Next, there was "Stanley" who wore glasses and a nice shirt and tie.  He thought very poorly about people who didn't do dishes or sweep the floors. He pointed out at his audience and demanded they get up and work around the house.

I taped the comics around the kitchen and hallways. They were so entertaining.  One of the grown children woke up late and saw them! "What's with all the comics?" He asked with a smile. 

When children are little, it is easy to get a routine of chores established. But as time changes and seasons come and go, we have to constantly adjust our homemaking tasks to meet the needs of a growing family.  When we have teenagers and young adults living at home, it is hard to avoid feel like a nag, wanting them to help more.  Motivation and fun cleaning games are a wonderful way to make a transition into a new routine of chores.

I have a new plan in place, and new chore assignments for each of my children.  We will continue to make war slogans for cleaning, to keep things light and fun here at home.  I love cleaning and housekeeping. I want to pass on that same delight to my children through creative motivation.

blessings
Mrs. White


From the Archives:

When Mr. White carried me into the house - Walking the Grounds with Mister.

Won't You Be One of these? - A Good Little Housewife.

A Very Special Place - The Comfort of a Dressing Room. 




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The Cultured Society of Home

In a biography about Abigail Adams, we are told that her father had a vast library, which she used as the main source of her education at home.  A home ought to be a place where solid, appropriate learning takes place.

 If a family has money, they might spend it on quality literature - classic titles by Dickens or Austen.  They might consider it wise to have a selection of titles from earlier days, such as those published by "The American Tract Society."  These were Christian stories of faith and family that were often read by the fireside. 

We have been told that Abraham Lincoln came from a very poor family.  The only book available to him was the Bible - but what a book! 

The key in a godly, cultured home, is not just what we "have" but what is not there.   If time and money are spent on meaningless trivia or meaningless amusements, one loses the time to invest in a sweet, wholesome society at home.    Money is often wasted on consumer goods, including processed foods, excessive toys and technology.  This is an investment into the type of society you are creating in your home.  We must be selective and careful to choose what we want in our homes.  When one selects the furnishings or the drapery or the decorations for a home, one is setting the mood for the type of home they will have.  Is this not also true for the types of things or activities that go on there?

Mothers can gently lead the family into a sweet and cultured home by her own cheerful interests in that which is good and noble.  I understand that the world has seeped into our homes, in this modern day; but Mother's interests can be carefully introduced.   Some mothers may listen to a muted version of Italian Opera while she bakes in the kitchen.  Others may have a sermon about the family playing in the background while she does the ironing.  Some may be reading the Bible, at the kitchen table and sipping on tea, while the children play.  Her actions and her interests will seep into the hearts of her family. 

The Amish have a way of making homemade furniture and foods that modern families think take too long.  The wisdom in the making is that it breeds peace in the heart and provides a gentler way of passing on skills to the younger generation.  Time spent doing this type of work at home with our family is precious and will reap goodness.

While we mothers clean and decorate our homes, may we think of ways to create a beautiful society at home.

blessings
Mrs. White


From the Archives:

Some Ideas - Getting Along in Marriage

Always striving to be this - The Old Time Housewife

Happy Days as Grandmother - Walking the Gardens with Baby




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An Evening in the Smoky Mountains of Tennessee

In the early 1990's, Mister and I moved to Tennessee. We lived there for about 3 months.  We had packed up all of our belongings and wanted to try a new life in the south.  At the time, we had four children. The youngest was only a few months old.  It was an incredible adventure!

The landscape in rural Tennessee is breathtaking.  The churches are lovely and inspiring!  We went to Dollywood and Cades Cove.  We looked at land for sale and mobile homes.  We were renting a little house in a suburban Knoxville community.  But we loved our little trips to the country and to see the "sights."

Last night I was delighted to see "Christy" on INSP television.   Mister and I watched several episodes, late into the night.  Christy is part of a missionary team who minister to the people in a rural mountain community.  There is a school and a church, but no businesses and no stores.  The scenery in the program is peaceful and makes one long for a rural, old time, country life.

There are so many incredible lessons to glean from "Christy."   The families were poor but had great pride and would not take charity.  They wanted to work for all they had.  The menfolk were the providers.   The mission house dealt with all kinds of failure and terrible situations, but they kept going.  They endured it and prayed and had faith in God.  They didn't give up on the people they were put there to minister to.    The missionaries were not perfect and made that very clear to each other.  I love that!

I noticed last night that the entire series of Christy is available on DVD, for a very low price.  I hope to get a set when I have a little extra money.  I would love to have it for the lessons and the peacefulness. I would also love it for the memories of living in a place that, sometimes, I wish I never left.

Blessings
Mrs. White






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Homemaking Propaganda

In our rapidly changing culture, we have to find a way to keep our bearings.  Many take vacations to "get away from it all," and have some quiet.   We are bombarded with ads, theories, ideas and marketing images.   Many of us long for a quiet walk in the beautiful countryside.  This can soothe a tired mind.  It can remove anxiety and worries.  It blocks the "world's" ideas long enough for us to recover and straighten our walk.

There is a dangerous seed spreading across the world's fields. It produces an anti- homemaking propaganda. It puts us on edge.  It wants to shut down the home, make it evolve, and destroy the tranquility of the little cottage where the old time family lives.

One needs a "pesticide" of sorts to remove this from the family garden.  It is a remedy, or a fertilizer, to help the spirit of homemaking to thrive.  We need our very own godly homemaking propaganda.

This can be found in certain television shows (Olivia and Grandma in "The Waltons;" Aunt Bea in "The Andy Griffith Show.")  It can be found in old writings, such as the original "Little House on the Prairie" books.  It can be found in some modern books. It can be heard on CDs through old time preaching sermons and homemaking radio programs. 

It can also be found in those who live it each day.  Each time a homemaker cheerfully cleans and cooks and bakes and commits to being a steadfast keeper of the home, she is sending out  good propaganda that will help the next generation to have courage and strength to continue. 

The homemaking propaganda can often be a living example of Mother at home.  This mother is tending and cultivating the little cottage for the old time family. She is doing this on little money and with minimal material goods.  She is making a little haven in the midst of a dying world. 

May God bring many more like her.   And let us encourage the godly homemaking propaganda to help guide those who are losing their way.  It is the Titus 2 mandate.

Blessings
Mrs. White


From the Archives:

Don't get Caught up in this kind of thinking - What Kind of Queen are You?

Have you ever Wondered? - How a Housewife Passes the Time.

Take Good Care of Him - Cooking for Mister.




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$4.38 for Revival Challenge and a Giveaway

The Revival Book -

My book, "Early Morning Revival Challenge" is on sale at Amazon for only $4.38! I don't know how long they will keep the price that low, but I hope you can get a copy or two at that price.

A Giveaway -

I am giving away 2 copies of the book to one winner!  One for you, and one for a family member or friend.   For a chance to win, please leave a comment on this post, telling me who you would give the second copy to, and why.

What Others are Saying -

1. Kathy has been using this 90 Day Revival challenge. Here is part of her review:

"If you are trying to establish a good habit of morning Bible reading this is a good book for that. And if you fill in the book with dates and your notes it will be a treasure for your grandchildren one day."


Read the rest at Teaching Good Things.


2. Sarah also reviewed the book. Here is part of her review:

"The whole thing has an old fashioned, down home feel to it just like Mrs. Sharon White’s blog at The Legacy of Home – it’s a good way to bring the calmness of a time gone by and modern study together."


Read the rest at Growing For Christ.


Who Would Enjoy the Book

1. Teens in youth group or Sunday School.
2. An informal Bible Study Group (perhaps they can each get a copy and check in with each other on their progress.)
3. Homeschool students (high school or college age)
4. Adults
5. A Wonderful gift idea for family and friends.


I hope you will get your copy while the price is so low! 




Don't forget to enter this giveaway for a chance to win 2 copies of "Early Morning Revival Challenge" (One for you and one for a family member or friend).  For a chance to win, just leave me a comment telling me who you would give the second copy to, and why.




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One random winner we be selected on Friday, October 4, 2013. (U.S.  Entries only.) The winner will receive 2 copies of "Early Morning Revival Challenge." If I am unable to reach the winner within 48 hours, an alternate winner will be selected.


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Note - This contest has ended. The winner is Deborah!
 

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Home as a Little Christian School

In this modern day, the worldly culture has seeped into our homes.  It doesn't belong there.  Home should be a little school of Christian living.  Here is where children see Mother and Dad read the Bible, say prayers, and model good manners and morals.

We should also see great industry.  We should see cheerful and happy workers in Mother and Dad.  They set the example.  Dad often takes great pride in the care of the home and yard.  We may see him mowing the lawn, repairing porch steps, working on the car, and fixing screens.  He is busy with making the property look pleasant. He maintains the little christian school called "home."

Mother is busy with preparing meals.  She might be mending a torn curtain, ironing shirts, washing the floor, or baking pastries.  She does this cheerfully, happy to be doing a great work for the Lord in the little home.

Along the way, children are added to the family.  They walk beside the parents.  They help in the care and keeping of that little school at home.  They join in the prayers, the Bible reading, and happy chores.  Often young children find chores pleasant and fun because they get to do them with their parents, whom they love and admire.  They enjoy the company of the parents and want to do the work along with them.  Through this, their own good manners and morals are developed.

Home should be a place which is not a stumbling- block to sin. There should be no liquor, no drugs, no crimes happening (little thefts within the family), no lies, no scantily dressed residents, and no evil or inappropriate television shows. The family ought to take a stance against the world, and stand for a godly home with good policies and rules in the little school at home.  Mother and Dad must model this behavior and set the example.

There is a culture of  the world's school, in some homes.  This does not build the Christian family. Here is where the world's ideas and theories are paramount.  Modern parents often buy their children gadgets and gifts and trips to make them happy, but don't ask the children to work for such frivolity.   Bible reading or prayers don't happen because modern parents are often embarrassed by it, or their children roll their eyes when it is offered because this is not the kind of little school they attended.  It is foreign to them.  They were trained in worldliness, amusements, taking it easy, and enjoying being "young." 

Mother and Dad must set the patten in little Christian homes.  They must study Scripture and pray and immerse themselves in holy living.  This is what will bring a light of wisdom and beauty and godliness into the little school at home.   Family Altar, Sermons, Memorizing the Bible, Modesty, Patience and a Servant's heart should be modeled by the parents. This should be done every day.  This is what makes a happy, joyous home, when Mother and Dad have a heart, and a love, for the Christian School. It ought to be their life's work, their hobby, their everything.

This modern culture is heading to a great ruin.  Let our little homes be strong Christian Schools, and let us bring hope to a dying world, by living heavenward lives, even if our little school is the only one in our community. 

Blessings
Mrs. White


From the Archives:

How precious - Sweet Hours at Home.

This is so important - Godly Home, Marriage and Family.

Daily Life - Ideas for a Happy Home.




For Home-keeping Inspiration, order my book - For The Love of Christian Homemaking. 




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Green Giant presents - a Health and Fitness Giveaway

I received a gift package from Green Giant.  It included:

1. A "Health and Fitness" journal.  This is a notebook containing daily food and exercise logs.

2.  Luggage - A Duffel bag

3.  A Bottle Infuser

4.  Target $10 gift card

5. Green Giant Coupons for free products


This is part of "Green Giant Make a Difference Campaign."

Green Giant wants you to enjoy your vegetables and feel good about eating them!  Their line of frozen products offers a great variety of nourishing food.


Giveaway

Would you like a chance to win the same gift pack I received? (Details above.)  To enter, all you have to do is leave me a comment telling me your favorite Green Giant product.



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2. Write a post, linking to this giveaway, on your own Blog. (This is worth 3 entries. Please leave 3 separate comments.)

3. Choose to "like" The Legacy of Home on Facebook.
 

*Please leave a separate comment for each entry.*

One random winner we be selected on Friday, October 4, 2013. (U.S.  Entries only.) The winner will receive one gift pack from Green Giant. If I am unable to reach the winner within 48 hours, an alternate winner will be selected.


-  You must include your email address in your profile, or in your comment, or I can't find you if you win! - Anonymous comments will be void.

Note - This contest is closed. The winner is Rachel!
 

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Giveaway - Rachel Jankovic's new book for Mothers

I have a special giveaway for you today.  There will be two winners.  This is for the latest book by Rachel Jankovic.  She is the daughter of Douglas and Nancy Wilson. She is an excellent writer.  You may have seen some of her blog posts at Femina.


  "Fit To Burst: Abundance, Mayhem, and the Joys of Motherhood," is published by Canon Press. There are 128 pages.  It is a slim but powerful book.

It is a book many mothers need. It is full of serious lectures based on real life at home.  These lectures are really just chapters, but they are Biblical lessons with a serious impact.  This will help the mother at home to straighten up, and get a better understanding of the call of godly mothering.

Rachel's book will take away a lot of guilt, freeing you to enjoy caring for your family.   You will find yourself smiling during her lectures, and nodding your head in agreement.  She has somehow found a way to take common worries and intelligently teach you what is really important.

The Giveaway

To enter for a chance to win a copy of this book, just leave me a comment.



For additional Entries:

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2. Write a post, linking to this giveaway, on your own Blog. (This is worth 3 entries. Please leave 3 separate comments.)

3. Choose to "like" The Legacy of Home on Facebook.

4. Choose to "like" Rachel on Facebook.

*Please leave a separate comment for each entry.*

Two random winners we be selected on Friday, October 4, 2013. (U.S.  Entries only.) Each will receive one copy of Rachel's book, "Fit to Burst."  If I am unable to reach the winner within 48 hours, an alternate winner will be selected.


-  You must include your email address in your profile, or in your comment, or I can't find you if you win! - Anonymous comments will be void.

Note - This contest is closed. The winners are:  Henna Maria and Laura Lane.
 

*Disclosure - A book was provided to me for review purposes. Books will be sent to the winners directly from the publisher.*

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Little Time for Homemaking

I often get up at 5 or 6 in the morning. This is how I get many things done in the home. I am not talking about heavy housework, but a way to set the mood for a pleasant day at home. 

I make my parlour look inviting, and open the blinds.   I tidy up the kitchen and sweep the floors.  I make tea and, perhaps, a batch of muffins.  Then I sit and read or write for a little while.  This prepares me and my surroundings for a day of keeping house.

On those days I get up late, I am rushed about.  I am distracted and distraught.  There is stress coming from my soul, rather than a sweet, gentling affect on those around me.

There are also things in the day which can take us away from our homemaking.  There are distractions that we get lured into.  Sometimes we are like toddlers walking in a candy store for the very first time.  We start watching a new television show and then forget about the sweet simplicity of life at home.  We may get caught up in doing some research and then start doing other things instead of being busy in our motherhood and homemaking.

When there is little time for homemaking, for whatever the reason, we rob ourselves of a beautiful life at home.  Instead of a sweet, slow-paced Italian home, we end up feeling like we are in the middle of a busy city apartment.  The way we keep our home, can give a sense of peace or  one of confusion.  The way we mothers and wives set the mood at home, can affect all who reside there.

Blessings
Mrs. White

From the Archives:

What life is like - Living Without Credit Cards.

Make the Most of this beautiful time at home - Spiritual Homemaking.



For Home-keeping Inspiration, order my book - For The Love of Christian Homemaking. 




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Simple Days at Home

Things are very quiet in rural Vermont. Many of us are getting ready for the coming winter. There are pretty leaves all over the landscape. Raking will soon become a family activity.  

There is always so much to do, from sun up to sun down.  There are children to care for, meals to cook, and a home to clean.   We all enjoy having Grandbaby here for an extended stay, along with his dear mother.  They brighten the home and keep the laughter going. 

I have been teaching baby how to clean. He just turned a year old.  I will give him a damp rag and he loves to clean his own high chair tray.  He will laugh with delight when he helps me with the work.  Throughout the house, baby's laughter awakens a happiness in every heart. Every home should have a baby.

Our wood pellet stove has been fixed. Mister was able to take care of it.  He has been doing test runs for us on these cool September mornings.  I love sitting near the fire with a pleasant book.

The other afternoon, I made a double batch of homemade frozen pizza. I neatly wrapped them in wax paper and stacked them in Ziploc freezer bags.  I thought how wonderful it would be if my freezer was full of homemade foods, rather than packaged commercial products from the store.  A carefully filled freezer of home goods, is something like rows of home canned foods stored away for the coming winter.

I need to set up a little basket near my parlour chair.  Socks, in this house, need mending. I haven't mended socks in such a long time, but I know it will be an enjoyable process. Perhaps when Amy (baby's mother) sits with me to chat, she will pick up some of the work, and we can mend while we have our daily visits in the parlour.

One of the greatest things I have learned as a homemaker and mother, is to have incredible patience with life.  One must never act on emotion - never in the moment.  Time is needed to pray, or to consider.  Having simple, quiet days at home, has made this all very clear to me.  Through a trusting patience in the Lord, we have a great contentment. Worries tend not to linger. They fade away as quickly as they came. 

To keep busy at home, in a slow and simple way, is a wonderful way of life.

Blessings
Mrs. White

From the Archives:

Please don't be one of these - Bossy Wives.

From My Kitchen - Baking Homemade Cinnamon Rolls by Lamplight.




For Home-keeping Inspiration, order my book - For The Love of Christian Homemaking. 




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Review Tour - For the Love of Christian Homemaking

I wanted to host a little tour today.  There are a few bloggers who have reviewed my homemaking book.  I'd love for you to visit them, when you have time, and see what they thought about the book.







Angie

I will start with Angie.   She is a homeschooling Mother of two sons, and lives with her family on a beautiful Lake out West.  Her homeschooling posts are always inspiring!

 Here is part of her review:

"We had just moved to this tiny town from a larger city full of activity and Going. Always Going. All of a sudden, I felt stuck at home, and quite alone. Mrs. White’s writing was soothing salve to my hurting heart. She talked of loving to take care of her home. Of relishing the quiet hours of the morning for rest and reflection and planning for the day. She would write about common housework like she was preparing for the most precious holiday or for a State Dinner. It was so calming; it brought validation of the importance of my role inside these four walls."

. . . .Read the rest at Petra School.


Sherry

This Homeschooling Mother of fifteen children has encouraged many people with her blog!  Her books about teaching using the McGuffey readers are well worth a look. 

Here is part of her review:

"Any mother would feel refreshed after just a few paragraphs; Sharon seems to know how to blend the simple with the profound."

. . . Read the rest at Large Family Mothering.


 
Mrs. June Fuentes

A Wife and Mother of 8 children, she has been blessing women online with her blog for many years. Her lovely blog is inspiring!

Here is part of her review:

"She draws us back to what is simple, peaceful, without all the rush and pressure of this world. Her focus is keenly on making a home for her beloved family and she does it with grace and strength that she draws from the Lord."

. . . Read the rest at A Wise Woman Builds Her Home.


Laura

A wife and homeschooling mother in Alaska.  She does a wonderful job with her blog, as she reviews many products that would benefit homeschooling families!

Here is part of her review:

"Having read several of Mrs. White’s writings in the past, I already had an expectation of the lovely conversational style she possesses.  I can just envision her in my mind’s eye with a cup of tea on the table as she spends a bit of time typing on the computer to share her thoughts on the vocation of motherhood."

. . . Read the rest at Day by Day in Our World.


Lady Violet

A Sweet mother of several little ones, Lady Violet is a dedicated homemaker. Her beautiful blog is artistic and encouraging.

Here is part of her review:

"Come and sit awhile in Mrs. White's parlor and be transported back in time. Mrs. White is a full time homemaker who takes her job seriously. Oh and yes, it is a job! If you have ever doubted that, this book will remind you of the importance of your job as a Christian homemaker."

. . . Read the rest at Blessed Homemaking.



If you decide to buy a copy of "For the Love of Christian Homemaking," for yourself or for a gift, I would love it if you would buy through one of their posts (which should contain an affiliate link, and will provide them with a small commission).


I hope you enjoyed this tour! Thank you so much for taking the time to visit!

blessings
Mrs. White



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Corrie ten Boom - In My Father's House

Corrie ten Boom was one of the most inspiring people of our time.  Her faith in God was incredible. She was called of Him to endure unbelievable pain and trials.  Through it all, she was a light of hope and warmth, as an ambassador of the Kingdom of God.

Corrie is best known for her book, "The Hiding Place."  This is about the holocaust and the concentration camps. Her family hid Jewish people in their home, to protect them from the Nazis.  Her family ended up in the camps.  She was the only one from her family to survive the prison camps.  She later became a "tramp for the Lord" (as one of her books is titled).  She travelled and spoke about her faith and encouraged others.

I have read, and owned, several of Corrie's books over the years.  However, old books tend to fall apart over time and need to be replaced.  The content of some books are so valuable, you want to get a new edition and take care of it as long as possible.  "In My Father's House" by Corrie, is one of those books. 

Lighthouse Trails Publishing has come out with a beautiful  new edition of Corrie's book.  This edition includes more than 50 photographs from Corrie's childhood and home.  "In My Father's House" is about her growing up years. It shows the foundation of her training and experiences that made her the strong, godly woman she was, which enabled her to endure the War and the aftermath. 

In this beautiful edition, you will read about her loving parents, her three aunts, her brother and sisters.  You will read about her father's life as a watchmaker and repairman in Holland.   You will read about little Corrie's concern for the lost souls in her town, and how her parents lovingly guided her to have compassion for others.  

I loved reading about her Mama! What a beautiful and wise, dear lady!  She was an incredible mother and an excellent wife.  Her father was also a very hardworking, patient, wise man. Corrie's memories of home life are instructive and precious.

The pictures of Corrie and her siblings are endearing.  I loved seeing her old home and the furnishings.  If you get a chance, look at the back cover of the book and see the gorgeous picture of sweet, little Corrie as a child.  It will give you a gratefulness to be a mother of your own children. It will encourage you to tenderly care for your own babies and raise them up to do God's work in this difficult world.

* This is one of those books I plan to re-read at least once each year. *



In My Father's House by Corrie ten Boom
Lighthouse Trails Publishing
ISBN # 978-0-9846366-2-4
(This is the beautiful 2011 edition with the family photographs.  It includes Scripture quotes that "Father ten Boom shared with his wife and children.")



* Disclosure - I received this item for review purposes.*


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